Freedom-Focused Coaching for Women Ready to Rewire Their Relationship with Alcohol

(and cocaine if that is part of your story - no shame here)

Whether alcohol, cocaine, or both have been part of your story, I guide women through powerful mindset, emotional, and identity shifts to help them break free from the cycle and build something real—and sustainable.

Without labels, shame, or rock bottoms.
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Freedom-Focused Coaching for Women Ready to Rewire Their Relationship with Alcohol

(and cocaine if that is part of your story - no shame here)

Whether alcohol, cocaine, or both have been part of your story, I guide women through powerful mindset, emotional, and identity shifts to help them break free from the cycle and build something real—and sustainable.

Without labels, shame, or rock bottoms.
START NOW

WHAT I'M ALL ABOUT:

Working with me means being seen, challenged, and deeply supported.

I blend radical compassion with clear, direct insight to help you shift your perspective, break old patterns, and reconnect with your power.

Clients say I help them see what they couldn’t before—and that changes everything.

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Are you a growth-minded woman who’s tired of feeling stuck in the drinking (or cocaine) cycle—but not sure how to actually break it?

Discover...

Your Pre-Quit Blueprint

7 Essential Shifts for Lasting Change

Without relying on willpower or waiting to feel “ready.”

Access the free minicourse to discover:

★ How to uncover the hidden drivers behind your cravings and compulsions.

★ How to rewire old beliefs, emotional patterns, and identity loops that keep you stuck.

★ How to take big, imperfect, empowering action toward a life you actually want.

✨ Ready to get started?
Yes! I’m Ready to Reclaim My Power

FREE MINICOURSE

Are you smart, self-aware, and still stuck in the cycle with alcohol (or cocaine)—and starting to lose hope?

The Pre-Quit Blueprint

7 Essential Shifts to Take Your Power Back

If you’re not sure why it hasn’t worked before, feel overwhelmed by willpower, or don’t know where to begin—without shame, guilt, or hitting a rock bottom first.

Inside the free minicourse you'll:

✔️ Learn why you actually keep going back—even when you don’t want to
✔️ Discover the invisible identity beliefs keeping you stuck
✔️ Build emotional awareness that goes beyond willpower
✔️ Start rewiring your habits before you even take a break
✔️ Begin seeing yourself as powerful—not powerless

Yes! I’m Ready to Reclaim My Power
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I'm Hayley.

I'm a certified coach, but more than that—I’m someone who’s lived it. I’ve been stuck in the alcohol and cocaine cycle, lost in codependency, and buried under pain I didn’t understand. Rock bottom wasn’t a life sentence; it was a wake-up call. Now, I help women reconnect to their worth, rewrite their story, and rise into real freedom—no shame, no labels required.

✨ More About Me →

"Hayley helped me see things clearly without ever making me feel judged.

Her support after relapse was a turning point—I finally felt understood, not broken. She has a gift for guiding you back to yourself."

- LAURA

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LEARN MORE ABOUT...

MY COACHING STYLE

If you want a taste of what my coaching style is like, listen to this episode of This Naked Mind, where I give tips on how to stop using alcohol as a crutch.

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Get to know me...

Tune in to some podcasts where I've been a guest so you can learn more about my story.

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Naked Life Story

Where I open up about my journey from social drinker to the painful consequences of relying on alcohol.

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Dry January

We talk about shame, we talk about discovery and we talk about possibility - and despite covering some really difficult topics, this is a really uplifting conversation.

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Breakthrough

My story of giving alcohol and cocaine a prominent role in my life, and how I broke through to discover true freedom.

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Add Your Name to the Waitlist

I'm launching a brand new course in August, 2025. 

Inside, you'll learn:

⇨ Break the Habit Loop: Understand the neuroscience of addiction and how to interrupt automatic patterns that drive drinking or cocaine use.

⇨ Rewire Your Mindset: Shift limiting beliefs, heal emotional triggers, and reclaim your identity with tools rooted in psychology, habit change, and self-compassion.

⇨ Build Lasting Freedom: Learn practical strategies to stay sober, regulated, and connected—without relying on willpower or feeling like you're just surviving.

"Hayley doesn’t just coach—she sees you.

Her ability to reframe thoughts, offer perspective, and guide with compassion helped me find self-acceptance, even in the messy middle. I’m still using her tools every day."

-SARAH

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LEVEL UP WITH 1:1 COACHING

I help women stuck in cycles of booze, blow, and burnout find freedom, power, and purpose without hitting rock bottom.

Through shame-free coaching, deep emotional work, and radical self-acceptance, I guide you back home to yourself so you can live fully, freely, and on your own terms.

Ready to dive in?

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TINA EXPERIENCED THIS SUCCESS

"Working with Hayley has been life-changing. She meets you where you are, listens deeply, and offers wisdom without pressure. Her calm presence, humor, and genuine care helped me feel safe enough to grow."

Musings From the Blog...

Alcohol & the Holidays

Jun 13, 2025

The Problem With "I'll Start Tomorrow"

Jun 13, 2025

Why Hire a Coach?

Jun 13, 2025

Let's Connect

Follow me on Instagram for real talk, sober inspiration, mindset shifts, and everyday moments from life beyond alcohol, cocaine, and old patterns.